Xumgender Flag 2
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Color meanings: Changed to make it look like a more standard pride design.

Xumgender Flag 1
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Xumgender is a neurogender defined as "never being satisfied with your gender due to constant self-doubt or identity issues, causing one to compulsively search and seek out something that fits as perfect as possible–to find “the gender” or “the one truth”–though one will never be found due to one’s neurotype, because words will never be able to describe it, and/or its own properties paradox itself. This frequent anxiety and doubt even causes this gender to feel imperfect to the individual."1

See also: Pendogender, Implagender, Inexgender.

History of the term

Xumgender was coined before August 29, 2015 by pride-flags-for-us2. The first flag was also created by PFFU and posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3 The second flag was created on October 16, 2015 by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.4

MOGAI-Watch Poem

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I suffer intense self-doubt,
but instead of getting that checked out,
I’d much rather be obsessive
about systems that I find oppressive.

Because it won’t fit neatly in a box,
my gender is a paradox.
Though I am dysphoria-free,
I dunno what my gender might be.


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