Softgirl Flag
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Softgender Flag 2
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Yellow : The yellow rays of positivity we let into our life β˜€οΈ
Green : The idea we will let ourselves grow and sprout up 🌱
Blue : For the overcoming of sadness and letting ourselves feel in the moment πŸ’§
Pink : The love we try to spread into the world πŸ’ž

Softgender Flag 1
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Softgender is a Personalitygender/Esmogender that has been coined three times.

  1. The first definition is "soft feels and pastel colours and….. yeah!"1
  2. The second definition is "where you identify as soft things, either physically or more on a cutesy side!!"2
  3. The third definition is "the gender of being soft, sweet, sensitive, and caring. This gender is inclusive to all ages.

βœ… If you’re softgendered/softself aligned
βœ… If you just ID with the flag
βœ… If you are softgender but don’t use softself pronouns
βœ… If you are unsure and want to try it out
βœ… If you are soft/sensitive/kind/caring
❌ If you are an ace,bi,trans,lgbt exclusionist
❌ If you don’t think mogai terms exist or are valid
❌ If you are a terf/swerf/etc.
❌ If you are truscum
❌ If you are just rude/mean, this label is for the soft and sensitive kind folk"

History of the term

Softgender was first coined in 2017 by tumblr user mentemmortaliatangunt.3 It was coined again on March 11, 2019 by an anonymous asker to likely troll blog mo-guys. The first flag was made by mo-guys at the same time.4 Although almost certainly coined by a troll blog, the term was reblogged by variant-archive, a legitimate MOGAI-blog.
The other two definitions appear to be legitimate.
The third definition and the second flag were created on June 18, 2019 by tumblr user softgender.5
The softgirl flag was created on November 25, 2019.6

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