Avarumgender Flag
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Avarumgender is a neurogender defined as "A gender for a person who feels that, while many terms may be used to describe their gender, they don’t feel like identifying with them may be right for them–due to uncertainty, anxiety, or just neurodivergency in general. Alternatively, a term for use where many labels may fit, and one’s gender may fit all the criteria for these labels, but the traits are all static and never seem to overwhelm each other.
“Varum” is the nominative, accusative, and vocative neuter case for the word that means “real” or “true.” One can add “a-” at the beginning (possibly) to mean “unreal” or “untrue” if they so wish, because varumgender/avurmgender can sometimes feel “fake” due to technically fitting so many labels. One can do with that as they wish."1

History of the term

Avarumgender was coined on or before January 19, 2017 by tumblr user the-devious-faery. The flag was posted to Pride-Flags on Deviantart on that date.2

MOGAI-Watch Poem

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Don’t call me a cishet,
I’m definitely not one;
although the label fits me,
its just so boring, hun!

I’d rather use a label that
tells you I’m not cis
because I’m neuroatypical
Hooray self-diagnosis!


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