All Mogai Sexualities

This section is a word-for-word rip from the MOGAI wiki.

Disclaimer
Not everyone agrees with this definition of sexual attraction

Sexual Attraction

Sexual attraction is an emotional response sexual people feel where they find someone sexually appealing, and often results in a desire for sexual contact with the person. Sexual attraction can be experienced towards any person and any gender, or even any thing/concept. Sexual attraction can be based upon many qualities of a person. Physical qualities can include, but are not limited to; appearance, movement, smell and clothing. The effect to which a person is successful at drawing sexual attraction based upon physical traits is known as sex appeal. Physical qualities that result in a sexual or erotic response affect a person’s Primary sexual attraction. Qualities that are not instantly available such as psychology, individual genetic and cultural influence can also lead to sexual attraction. Secondary sexual attraction is an attraction that develops over time based on the relationship and emotional connection with another person. There is currently no single accepted definition of sexual attraction. A common definition of sexual attraction is that it is defined as a directed libido.

Different combinations of sexual attraction result in different classifications such as heterosexual attraction (sexual attraction to a person of a different gender), homosexual attraction (sexual attraction to a person of the same gender) and bisexual/pansexual attraction (sexual attraction to two or more genders). Those that lack sexual attraction are asexual. Sometimes asexuals will desire sexual contact for other reasons other than attraction. Such reasons include making a sexual partner happy, to satisfy a curiosity, to have a child, or to prove to themselves or others that they are ‘’normal’’. It therefore becomes difficult to define sexual attraction exactly, as it is not considered by many asexuals to be the same as desire. It is commonly held that sexual attraction involves a desire for the sexual act itself, rather than its social consequences. Some models of asexuality make distinctions between different kinds of sexual desire and allow for asexuals to feel some varieties, while some do not.

Sexual attraction is often experienced alongside other forms of attraction—such as romantic, aesthetic, or attraction—or an emotional connection. However, sexual attraction can be independent of other attractions or emotional connections, which results in only desiring sex. There are different models and methods to approaching sexual attraction. It should be noted that sexual attraction is not the same as a sex drive, although in sexuals the two often go together. When asexuals experience a physical desire for sex (a libido), it is not connected to attraction or desire to another person, and thus can be satisfied without a partner. Some asexuals identify with autochorissexuality, which is a disconnection between oneself and the object/ target of one's arousal. Autochorissexuality describes a lack of emotional desire to participate in sexual activities, and is not a sexual identity, but a label/trait.1
See Also
Romantic Attraction
Split Attraction Model
Tertiary Attraction
Attraction Types


List of All MOGAI Sexualities

Acehomodemiflux

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Acehomodemiflux is a miscellaneous MOGAI sexuality defined as "an asexual who very rarely when close to another of the same gender experiences attraction to the same gender based on the gender they currently identify as. (So if female, experiences sexual attraction to girls, if guy, experiences sexual attraction to guys. If nonbinary, experiences sexual attraction to other enbies.)"1

History of the term

Acehomodemiflux was coined on May 31, 2018 by anonymous via tumblr blog all-prides-matter (who may or may not have been a troll, but whose flags and terms were reblogged by non-trolls). The flag was created at the same time.2

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Acehomodemiflux
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I am an asexual,
but also I am gay.
I’m terrible at graphic art
and I was born this way!

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Acosexual

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Color meanings: The red represents sexuality, the black represents why you cannot be involved in sexual things (hence the cross) and the pink shows the possibility of less sexual attraction (that is still there ) and the red outline shows that full attraction may still remain.

Acosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is an esmosexuality defined as "experiencing attraction that one wants to act on, but at the same time having a strong aversion to engaging in it due to bad experiences, apprehension, or other misgivings about being involved in romantic relationships or sexual activity, etc."1

History of the term

Acosexual was coined before August 30, 2015 by pastelmemer (aka pride-flags-for-us). The first flag, by tumblr user rythian-exe, was posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.2 The second flag was created on or before September 9, 2015 by unknown and posted on that date by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3 The rest of the flags were created on July 1, 2018 by Fy on Beyond-Mogai-Pride-Flags.4

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Acosexual
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My sexuality is really
the symptoms of past trauma,
but if you point that out to me,
I’ll start a ton of drama.

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Acrisexual

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Acrisexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is an esmosexuality defined as "When you feel attraction, but it feels wrong or unnatural to be feeling it, like it should not happen to you."1

History of the term

Acrisexual was coined before November 14, 2018 by pastelmemer. The flags were created on that date by mogaiheaven.2

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I don’t know why I like this chick,
for I’m a man and gay–
I can’t just accept that I am bi,
it’s unnatural to be that way.

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Adeisexual

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Adeisexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a sexuality or romantic orientation in which when one becomes sexually or romantically interested in one, they become severely attached or ‘clingy’ to said person.
note: a basically watered down version of obsesexual/romantic that is allowed use by neurotypical people. said orientation does not excuse any inappropriate actions caused by this."1

History of the term

Adeisexual was coined on or before May 3, 2015 by tumblr user theboxwitch (or official-homura-akemiii) via themogai-archive, which is not the same blog as MOGAI-Archive.2 The flags was created before July 20, 2018 by unknown.3

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Don’t shame me for my clinginess
or the avalanche of texts
I send you when you ignore me–
I am not obsessed!

It’s not creepy that I stalk you,
you should go out with me–
if you don’t, you’re phobic
of my identity

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Adfectusexual

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Adfectusexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "whether sexual/romantic attraction is present depends on one’s state of mind. Adfectual and Adfomantic for short. Based on Adfectus."1

History of the term

Adfectusexual was coined on or before May 3, 2015 by by tumblr blog themogai-archive (not the same as MOGAI-Archive.2 The flags were created on April 9, 2018 by tumblr user chlorinetastetester. [3][4]

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When I’m feeling anxious,
I don’t want to have sex–
don’t imply that I’m “normal”-
I’m totally aspec.

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Aegosexual

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Aegosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a miscellaneous MOGAI sexuality defined as "a disconnection between oneself and the object of arousal; may involve sexual fantasies or arousal in response to erotica or pornography, but lacking any desire to be a participant in the activities therein."1
The older name for this is Austochorissexual.

According to tumblr blog MOGAI Library,
You might be autochorissexual [or aegosexual] if:

  • you get aroused by sexual content but don’t actually want to engage in any sexual activities yourself
  • you masturbate, but are neutral or repulsed by the idea of having sex with another person
  • when you fantasize about sex, you envision people other than yourself, and/or you view it in third person, as though you’re watching it on TV, rather than imagining it in first person, through your own eyes
  • you predominantly or entirely fantasize about fictional characters or celebrities, rather than people you actually know
  • you identify as asexual and feel no sexual attraction to people, but enjoy masturbating, are aroused by sexually explicit content, and/or have sexual fantasies.

History of the term

Autochorissexual, the original term, was coined by Anthony F. Bogaert in 2012 and labeled as a “paraphilia,"2 which MOGAI people later objected to.
Aegosexual was suggested as a new, actually pronounceable name for the same idea by whythefuckisyouromeo on November 1, 2014.3
From the renaming post:

Autochoris- is a bit of a mouthful…
…and was coined with intentions to use it to describe a paraphilia (NOT a sexuality), by someone who (despite notable and commendable contributions) is not himself asexual, nor does he remotely identify with the term he created.
Now, to sidetrack: I am not the only person to have had the “Yer a wizard, Harry!” moment of realization upon hearing the description of this term, that incredible relief of “Oh God, it’s not just me”. I’m not the only one to have spent years wondering what was wrong with me, why I felt this way, and what the hell my identity was, anyway. I give tremendous regards to Dr. Bogaert for his coinage of the term, and his definition of what many of us were experiencing without knowing how to explain it, or feeling comfortable enough to talk about it.
However, my gratitude to Dr. Bogaert does not erase my distaste for the unnecessarily long and unpronounceable word (choris or khoris?), nor does it mean I am any less upset and offended that he described my experience as a paraphilia. A paraphilia is an abnormal sexual interest, much like a fetish. And as we can see from the number of people who can relate, autochoris- is not abnormal. We are not broken, we are not strange, and we have lived our lives wondering what’s wrong with us. In my case, I’ve spent years already battling hatred from both sides; those who claimed asexuality does not exist, and my own mind, for claiming I couldn’t be asexual if I experienced sexual arousal. Enough is enough. I know I’m not the only one that’s taken years to get here and find where I belong. I’m not about to sit by and let some allosexual man tell me that what I’ve felt, worried about, and cried over for years is essentially a fetish. This is my sexuality, and I don’t want the word for it to take longer to say than the definition.
So! I saw a suggestion that someone who identifies with the definition of autochoris- to coin a new term, and I set to the task. Using my previous knowledge of Latin linguistics and a few websites, I made a list of possible terms, and narrowed down my favorite: aego- (AY-go or AI-go), as in aegosexual(ity) or aegoromantic(ism). This was drawn from the prefix a-, meaning without, and the word ego, meaning me or myself. Translated literally, aegosexual would mean “sexual without myself”, which is essentially the same translation as autochoris.
I don’t mean to be presumptuous and say that this is the only acceptable term for this sexuality. However, I am adamant that this be considered a sexuality, and due to my belief that it should be treated as such, I felt it needed a term to describe it as a sexuality, not as a paraphilia. I’m open to suggestions for other terms, and I still have my list of possible terms and their meanings saved, if anyone would like to see them. Since autochoris- is still a new word, I’d like to see it reclaimed and accepted as a sexuality, with a new word to brand it as such, before it’s dismissed by the ace/aro and LGBT+ community. I will not rest until it is classed as a full sexuality, and I fully believe that a new term is the first step towards making it so.4

The flag was created on July 23, 2014 by tumblr user hunterinabrowncoat.5

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Autochorissexual
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I climb the tree outside her house,
to lay eyes on my love,
for tonight, her blinds aren’t closed,
thank heavens above.
Some suitors might bring a lute
those serenading, lusty bucks,
but me, I bring binoculars
so I can watch her when she fucks.

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Aegosexual
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I like thinking about vaginas,
and looking at them, too,
but just thinking about them
it the most I’ll ever do.

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Aerosexual

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Aerosexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a naturosexuality defined as "when an individual’s attraction relies highly on their setting and/or atmosphere, which can be composed of a great number of things (ex. who they’re around, their level of comfort, the temperature, the weather, the time of day/year, etc). Based on aerogender.1

History of the term

Aerosexual was coined before January 11, 2016 by unknown.2 The flags created on March 23, 2019 by tumblr user hawaiiaine (aka arsgoesgender aka thepancherryblossom).3

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Rain always makes me horny,
and sometimes, when it’s hot,
I am less attracted
than when it is not.

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Ageninic

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Ageninic (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a miscellaneous MOGAI sexuality defined as "attraction to agender people"1

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History of the term

Ageninic was coined on July 30, 2018 by tumblr user femaleganondorfdragmire via beyond-mogai-pride-flags. The flag was created at the same time.2

Agitaromantic

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Agitaromantic (/-sexual/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a neurosexuality defined as "a romantic orientation revolving around feeling romantic attraction, but due to trauma involving a past break-up, the user is terrified of entering a relationship.
this romantic orientation is only reclaimable by trauma survivors. do not use this/identify with this if you do not have trauma relating to a relationship’s break-up."1

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History of the term

Agitaromantic was coined on December 13, 2018 by tumblr user nebularomantic. The flag was created at the same time.2

Agorarelatious

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Agorarelatious is a miscellaneous MOGAI sexuality defined as " being interested in having an open relationship (—a relationship where you have agreed with your partner that it is okay to have sexual/sensual/romantic relations with other people)
Root- agora — meaning open"1

History of the term

Agorarelatious was coined on August 31, 2014 by tumblr user purrloinsucks.2 The flag was created on February 3, 2018 by Pride-Flags on Deviantart.3

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“Polyamorous” is too mainstream—
I need another word.
I mean, use a pre-existing one?!
Come on, don’t be absurd.

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Ailuromantic

Aliussexual (/-romantic/-platonic/-aesthetic/-queerplatonic/-sensual/-alterous) is a kinsexuality defined as "an arospec term for catkin/felinekin who feel that they like to flirt just for the fun of it, but not out of attraction. Ailuro- refers to cats."1

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History of the term

Aliussexual was coined on December 12, 2018 by tumblr user Sapphire Crimson Claw via uncommongenders. There is no flag.2

Alexandritic

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Alexandritic (mlm, wlm, mlnb, wlnb) is a term within the Juvelic System of Sexuality "describes someone who is mlm, wlm, mlnb, and wlnb."1

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History of the term

Alexandritic was coined on July 6, 2018 by anonymous via tumblr user saturnic-vapour. The flag was created on that date by anonymous via tumblr user saturnic-vapour.2

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